How Random are Relationships?

What brings a couple together? What keeps them connected?

There is no one way to meet perspective partners. It used to be that our romantic interests were discovered in our communities like school, church or workplace. Outside of traditional cultures that arrange marriages, today people are pretty much on their own as they choose life partners.

Lately the Internet has taken to introducing available people based on mostly external considerations. Some of these dating services function better than others.  Another trend which is regaining ground is matchmaking. It may be that these paid busy-bodies have a reasonable record of success because they become familiar with the desires and needs of the people they match up. And some in traditional cultures  follow the dictates of “the stars” in introducing available folks.

More folks then ever are living together without conventional ties. Actually over 50 percent of cohabiting couples do move on to marriage. Still these unions may not thrive like those where the couple was formally engaged. The rates of divorce for married cohabiting couples is five times greater than for married non-cohabiting pairs. The higher occurrences of infidelity, greater financial insecurity, and young children of informal arrangements all take their toll on new relationships.

And happily ever after does not automatically follow the marriage ceremony. According to statistics almost 50 percent of all first marriages in the U.S. end in separation or divorce. Second and third marriage are even less likely to succeed. The reasons for divorce are disruptive issues which couples are not willing to face.  Irreconcilable differences are the most common grounds for divorce.

Now let’s consider Dayology.  We cannot be sure tell part part the Day Ray and Sun Sign  patterns occur in our relationships until we have conducted extensive Dayology Research. We are finding that relationships among famous pairs do follow certain harmonious and disharmonious connections.  Dayology in our Relationships a lists a number of well-known individuals playing out a variety of roles and combining a  number of energies.

Our conclusion is that relationships are less random than supposed.  While the precise roles that planets play in attraction have yet to be confirmed, we certainly have social structures that bring us together and hold us in place, if we care to support them. 

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