She Hates Me to Death

Some of us try to stay informed about who is with whom in Hollywood, New York and LA, but it’s impossible to keep up with everything famous. For instance it was just announced that John Mellencamp can’t get over his split with Meg Ryan. Wow, who even knew they had a relationship let alone a break-up.

Well, sometimes it is only when a relationship is over, that we can understand what was going on. Apparently this romance is one of those situations. In a People magazine feature John Mellencamp stated that he had tried to make amends with Meg Ryan but “she just doesn’t want anything to do with me. And I can’t blame her.” He added “I think it’s because I’m a child. I throw fits, I gripe, I complain. I’m moody. Every bad thing that a fella can be, that’s me.

Apparently these two high flyers have dated for three years, on and off, before they called it off in 2014. That’s years ago and Mellencamp hasn’t gotten over it yet. “I loved Meg Ryan. She hates me to death,” Now had I been asked, as a Dayologist, if these two people were suited for one another, I would have instantly said no. I know that these two celebrities were born on Sunday and that two Sunday individuals generally do not make a successful SUN/SUN pair.

The Dayology Analysis

John Mellencamp

Meg Ryan

Individuals born on Sunday are attracted to each other because they both want to live the good life. Like their INNER ruler, the Sun, each partner wants to be the absolute center of the solar system. In addition they want complete freedom to do whatever they please. They dislike asking for permission from anyone. Yes, Sun people can be warm, funny and generous, but life is on their terms. And maturity is necessary for two Sun individuals to adapt to one another.

Externally there is a fair amount of attraction and tension between Ryan and Mellencamp. Their Sun Signs, Scorpio and Libra, are adjoining signs indicating a push-pull type of relationship. Mellencamp generally plays the more dynamic role and Ryan tends to respond magnetically. Then from another perspective Mellencamp’s Venus OUTER ruler had the potential to act as if he was cooperative but he really couldn’t buckle down. Ryan’s Mars OUTER ruler has the potential to hold grudges as well as the capacity to call it quits.