Back in 2017 Rachel Lindsay was unmarried and looking for love. She tried out as a contestant for The Bachelor and became one of many attractive women who vied for the love of Bachelor, Nick Viall. Sadly Rachel placed third, but then it was announced that she was about to become a Bachelorette. She would have her choice of dozens of attractive young men. When her time came around it was announced to be the most “diverse cast in the Bachelor Nation franchise history. Rachel was “courted” and “wooed”. In the end she chose Bryan Abasolo.
“Rachel, Rachel, Rachel, Rachel. When I first stepped put of that limo, I knew I was in for the ride of my life. When we first kissed, it was literally like a chemistry bomb had just exploded and I just knew that first night, a hundred percent certainty in my heart that we definitely could be something special. You are everything I could ever want in a woman, a wife, the mother of my children. I’m completely head-over-heels, totally, absolutely in love with you. I just hope you feel the same” – Bryan to Rachel
“This love has been so mature, it’s tested me in ways that I couldn’t have even imagined. And I always said that I would know that the person that I’m supposed to is someone that I could never picture my life without. So right here, in this moment standing with you, I see my forever and I see my future. Wait! And I just wanna tell you that I love you and I’m in love with you, and I can’t imagine spending my life with anybody else!” – Rachel to Bryan
Rachel and Bryan became engaged, married in a private ceremony, and moved to Miami where Abasolo was a doctor of chiropractic medicine. When Rachel was offered a position in the entertainment industry Abasolo closed down his medical practice, and moved to California with the highest hopes, but unfortunately things worked out differently than was anticipated.
   #02 SUN TAU 4/21/1985 Rachel Lindsay |    #71 FRI AQU 2/15/1980 Bryon Abasolo |
Rachel Lindsay was born on a Sunday in the zodiac sign of Taurus. The Sun is her INNER RULER and Venus is her OUTER RULER. Together these two energies create a confident and strong-minded individual. She wants her life to be one of comfort, beauty and passion. Why not?
Bryon Abasolo was born on Friday in the zodiac sign of Aquarius. Venus is his INNER RULER. Saturn and Uranus are his OUTER RULERS. He is an unconventional guy who thinks for himself and may be hesitant in showing his feelings. Still you can count on him being truthful.
Viall and Lindsay were caught in the romance the The Bachelor show, but obviously they could not click as a long-term relationship. It’s true that lovely Venus ruled both of their OUTER natures, but there is a big difference between the love needs of Libra and Taurus. Abasolo and Lindsay share a Venus rulership between his Friday INNER SELF and her Taurus OUTER SELF. His love for her may be more elevated than her love for him. She will be asked to make huge sacrifices.
As Dayology goes Abasolo and Lindsay have a big problem regarding their Sun Signs. Taurus and Aquarius are in square aspect on the zodiac wheel. Squares naturally act in a rigid manner and overtime they can build up great tension. If a pair can flexibly work out their differences, a square can actually hold them together. Also individuals with Taurus Suns are usually rather firm and traditional while Aquarians are almost always individual and unconventional.
UPDATE – 8/2/2024. According to court documents the estranged pair were still living together despite their split. Abasolo explained that while he was working for himself at the time that he could not make it on his own financially at this time. “I placed my career as a chiropractor on hold to move twice for Rachel’s career,” “These moves were detrimental to my chiropractic business, while Rachel’s income and success as a media personality skyrocketed.”
UPDATE – 7/19/2024. The news is that Bryon Abasolo filed for divorce from Rachel Lindsay, citing “irreconcilable differences.” According to Abasolo “After more than 4 years of marriage, Rachel and I have made the difficult decision to part ways and start anew. My parents have been married forever and I’m a family man, but sometimes loving yourself and your partner means you must let go. I wanted you to hear it from the source before the blogs start making up their own reality. Please respect the spaces of our family and friends as we figure out our next steps.”
UPDATE -1/30/2024. In U.S. Magazine Bryon Abasolo stated “To be fair, we’ve been living together for almost 3 years here in LA. Not sure why people think we’ve been apart this entire time.” He explained why things were not working out for them as planned in an understanding manner. “Yes, her career came first, but there were opportunities for her that were smart for her to take which could have not been offered later. It’s hard as it is for women of color to get big gigs which I’ve observed through watching Rachel’s efforts.”
UPDATE -12/21/2023. Lindsey explained that they were leading separate lives due to their careers. She says “Bryan is a sole practitioner (and) he leaves the house at 8 a.m. He comes home at 9 o’clock, 9:30 [at night]. I have a lot more free time … and then I’m back in hustle mode trying to get a second job, so I go to events. So, we’re just in two totally different places.”
UPDATE – 6/9/2020. In an ET Interview Rachel Lindsay reports that she and Bryan Abasolo have had some tough discussions, “People were not receptive to our relationship at the end of The Bachelorette. So, we’ve always had to develop a thick skin and figure out how to navigate this world as an interracial couple. We did that from the very beginning,” Lindsay is black American. and Abasolo is Colombian. They want their future kids “to experience both cultures.” she revealed to ET. “They’ll be bilingual and they’ll understand both cultures.”
